The Title says it all. Although i am not web-design functionate enough to design my own website, i hereby offer the following support group to those people that have been or are being so F#$#d up by either their Xwife or their significant other’s Xwife. That’s right, men and women (for we all know that my X-wife doesn’t represent the majority of womankind). Hopefully. :) So if you are getting mentally skewered enough that you (like myself) have gone on the internet looking for such a support group and have found this link, welcome! You are not alone.
I’ll start – i live in a small town in northern Canada. I married my wife after 6 weeks, at her insistence. She’s 30 and wanted babies. I’m 35 and wanted babies in a healthy relationship, which i believed would happen while working on the baby part. When she wasn’t pregnant in the first 2 months of the marriage, she went to a fertility clinic who laughed her out, telling her to come back in a year. Due to my job (i house juvenile delinquents undergoing treatment in the community) she never felt ‘safe’ enough to live with me and so in the 2nd month of marriage she told me that it was either her or my career. I chose the career, and that’s when the ‘psycho’ tag started becoming more prevalent.
I just celebrated 6 months of my poser marriage by serving her divorce papers and now she’s threatening to rip me a new asshole on her own personal blog (that she thinks i read and she’s right – i copy and paste into a file for the later court appearance that is no doubt pending) She also told me she is pregnant and although i know of 4 different guys she has gone out with, she is insisting i am the father. She says she is now attending therapy, AA, and even talked to another wife in the program – all things i asked her to do 3 months ago when there was a small chance that i was crazy enough to reconsider our marriage vows.
Yet life goes on. She was served today and in the 12 hours since, she has threatened to ‘out’ my house to the neighbourhood, to ‘out’ my employer who contracts with the gov’t, to ‘out’ the others that i work with as well. She’s stated that the papers weren’t correct as her maiden name wasn’t her maiden name at birth…. (say what?, you might ask as do i) and that she’s supposed to get an affadavit, which is what the person serving her signs to give to the court to say that she was served. I could go on, and probably will at a later date. If you have dropped in pls feel free to help me feel not alone by sharing your psycho Xwife stories with the rest of us. Misery loves company.